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Catholic Education- It's Worth Your Money! |
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By Alfie D'Souza, Illinois [ Published Date: September 2, 2010 ]
I decided to write this article after I read an article " Catholic schools: Not just for Catholic," published in The Times, a local newspaper in my town here in Ottawa, Illinois, U.S.A. The article was written by Nick McLaughlin, a senior student at Marquette High School, Ottawa. Transfered from a public school to a Catholic school, Nick in his article mentioned that he experienced a huge difference in his life through education and religious atmosphere at Marquette which made him a well-educated and a better person. He ends his article by saying," I am not Catholic, I am Protestant. Because of this school, I am firm in my faith before leaving this institution, I am well-educated, and I have learned a ton. This Catholic school and the religious atmosphere, has made me want to become more, to become a better person". Well said, Nick!
And yes---Catholic schools truly make a difference in your life, and I know it since I also graduated from a Catholic institution namely St. Aloysius High school and College, Mangalore. At St. Aloysius--through proper guidance, excellent discipline and superb teaching by the Jesuit priests and excellent faculties, brought out the best in me as I grew in knowledge, skills and values. Right from my early schooling until I graduated from college the faculty and staff at St. Aloysius School and College were my role models who shared their faith, their talents and their time-- and because of their sacrifice and commitment towards me has made me a better person today. Me, and my brothers Joe and Rudy feel very proud to be graduated from this great Catholic institution, and we owe our sincere gratitude to our alma mater.
I am not discriminating nor that I am saying education at other private or public schools is bad, but education at a Catholic institute is a challenging education. High standards, strong motivation, effective discipline and an atmosphere of caring combine to foster excellence, and a high quality of student performance is supported by the evidence. A Catholic school's value is not 'added' but embedded. It is reflected in the philosophy and practices that permeate the educational process.
At Catholic schools, students have the opportunity to talk about their beliefs, explore their faith life, and understand their responsibilities as Christians regardless of their religious background. All are welcome at a Catholic school and all share in the experience of faith, acceptance, forgiveness, service, truth, love, and compassion. They are challenged to put their faith into action and provide services to those in need including the sick, the poor, the elderly and the disadvantaged.
While providing a stimulating and demanding education, Catholic Schools give students a high level of individualized attention and personal sharing. A Catholic School recognizes the parents and family as primary educators and joins with them to form a living community of shared visions. Catholic Schools are committed to the developlment of the whole student. Extra-curricular activities are regarded as an important part of the total experience.
A variety of choices is offered to reflect the uniqueness of each student, to generate a healthy sense of competition, to create a spirit of cooperation, and to foster both leadership and creativity. And I remember being at the helm of various co-curricular activities during my high school and college days at St. Aloysius--- In high school I was member of Sodality; member of UNESCO club; and member of Photography club. In college I was Secretary of Co-Life Association; Editor-in-Chief of Co-Life magazine; member of AICUF and CLC; member of Biology Association; Sports Association; and Fine Arts Association. Thanks to my teachers who encouraged me to participate in all these extra-curricular activities.
Like most of you who had education at Catholic institution-- me, my brothers, my nephews Brian, Adrian and my neices Jennifer, Julie and Sherine, all feel the sense of belonging to something that is more important than our education and experience-- that is the long-lasting feeling that you are still the proud family member of your alma mater.
Finally, all I can say is that a Catholic education is worth the cost. It's money wisely spent. Your child's tuition is an investment which pays a lifelong dividend. So parents, whether you are Catholic or non-Catholic and if you want to see your children well-educated and disciplined, then consider to educate them at Catholic Schools-- because someday you will be displaying a bumper sticker saying that "Proud Parent of a Catholic School Student ". Long live Catholic education, and long live Catholic institutions!
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Raj Paksha, India
: Alfie D'Souza - I don't think there is anything wrong with this article. All the comments from the viewers were regarding the 'religion/catholic' part of the institution and nothing against St. Aloysius. I think it is healthy to hear others opinion. The comments again is quite secular, in my opinion with a back and forth between the varma, vedant, shenoy and shetty. I would not consider this a backlash from the hindu's at all as I have read these readers comments for other similar topic and they are consistent and quite informative. If at all one has to get the feel of the public opinion, I think a debate such as this is good. |
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Sanjay Shetty, USA
: To all here - Happy Ganesh Chaturthi. I meant to wish all on Saturday but home chores, poojas, entertaining guests etc came first I guess.
Alfie - Thanks for your message and hope it makes it clear to all. From the man himself, so no doubts or fears as some unnecessarily portray.
Shenoy R - I actually did enjoy the Kadubu. :) Hope you had a good one buddy. We even got some sugarcane too.
However, I always seem to miss my beloved Puri Sheera from Hotel Taj Mahal. No matter how much I try, I just can't master that taste while cooking.
Anyway, cheers all. |
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Alfie D'Souza,Illinois, USA
: To Sanjay Shetty and the others who supported my article--all I can say is a big thank you in zillions! When I wrote this article I didn't mean to criticize other educatioanal institutions that are run by non-Catholics. In my article all I said was what I felt about having education at a Catholic facility, and my facts are true which many agreed with me. No matter what I still support my alma mater and once again say that education at Catholic institution is the best-- whether many of you agree with me or not. This article is about my personal experience at a educational institute that I cherished a lot, and gained a lot. Nothing less. Nothing more. If you were satisfied with the education you got from a non-Catholic institution I feel happy for you--no hard feelings! It was your choice! It was your satisfaction! Let's not get into more arguments on this article. Thank you! |
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SHENOY R, India
: And to you all. Happy Eid. -Sanjay politically correct Shetty
Happy Ganesh Chaturthi to you Sanjay saab. Enjoy kadubu in plenty. |
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Sanjay Shetty, USA
: Publicity? Hahahaha.
I will have a great Mr Shenoy.
Happy Eid by the way!
And to you all. Happy Eid. |
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SHENOY R, India
: But dont fool yourself to thinking they haven't heard of Oxford or Cambridge-S Shetty
Publicity or the lack thereof can make the difference.
'stars' like you wouldn't know who they were. -S. Shetty
As long as super stars like you fool yourselves to be knowledgeable, ordinary mortals like us would not know.
And I certainly see no references in the article to 'Hindu' schools being inferior.
-Shetty
What the mind does not know, the eyes do not see.
Have a great secular day Mr Shetty. |
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Sanjay Shetty, USA
: Vedant - Admitedly yes, I was offended but dont you slap the 'flaring and burning out' to the bunts 'breed' alone. I find it a prejudiced and inferior way of thinking.
And I dont even want to hear your prejudiced opinions on maybe the Muslims, Christians or the other castes and creeds in India.
My opinion on the US constitution is well researched and I have understood this article well too. And I totally agree that this is not about me either and it never was nor did I intend this discussion to be about me. This article is about airing your views on it. Which I did.
But this is not about religion too.
So stop subtely bringing this in the conversation. This article is about Catholic institutions in India. Let's celebrate it and be thankful for the contribution of such institutions to India. And stop moaning about trivial issues that seem to irk you so much. Cos this is not about you either.
Have a nice day. |
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Vedant, India
: Sanjay - I guess your uncertainty about your brahamin or a bunt breed showed when you flared and got burnt out.
Your honesty / helping nature is not what this discussion is about. This is not a forum for popularity contest. You in particular will not win a medal.
Your opinion on US constitution sucks and your understanding of the article or my comments questionable.
I guess there is no point trying to kill what ever grey matter you have. This has been quite tough on you.
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Sanjay Shetty, USA
: Shenoy R - I agree that Kerala is 100% literate. I also agree that they would know more about Manipal as well as compared to 'Calvin'. But dont fool yourself to thinking they haven't heard of Oxford or Cambridge. In Kerala or out of Kerala.
But ask the same quesiton to a literate in Oxford or Cambridge about Manipal?? Or maybe from another state in India apart from Kerala who are neighbours of Karnataka and about 12 hours drive from Udupi.
My notion stands.
Also, give your Kerala friends a choice of a 100% free scholarship to study in an institution of their choice may it be Manipal or studying in Oxford or Cambridge full expenses paid.
Drum roll please....and you know the answer - They will 100% choose Oxford, Yale or Cambridge. Bitter fact Shenoy.
Not saying the education in Manipal is bad. With time, I am sure the world will know about quality Indian institutions like Manipal etc as the economy is growing and expanding.
I guess, I shouldn't have brought Calvins in the pitcure cos 'stars' like you wouldn't know who they were. Sarcastically had to reply to your comment about me earlier.
I do however think you are a 'true star' for respecting all religions as well as non believers.
But I suggest you start practicing it by avoiding being unnecessarily arrogant.
As I said to Varma earlier as well, I didnt mean to belittle rather agree with the article written. And I certainly see no references in the article to 'Hindu' schools being inferior.
So if we have to - Agree to disagree I guess without name calling. Shall we? |
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SHENOY R, India
: For e.g. every literate person has heard of Harvard, Calvins, Yale, Oxford, Cambridge but bring a name like Manipal or whatever you have mentioned below and you will experience perplexed faces worldwide and even in some places in India I'm sure.
-Sanjay Shetty
A star is born. I mean Sanjay Shetty. Will you define literacy Mr Shetty? Kerala is a one hundred percent literate state. They know Manipal very well. They may not know too much about Calvins. Excuse me what was it again?
I have no problem if a Shetty can be a Brahmin. However I used to think that Shenoy can only be a GSB. I was proved wrong when I came across Shenoys in Catholics. There is Lance Shenoy in Qatar. I personally know some catholic Shenoys, Prabhus [who can forget our famous Austin maam?] and Kamaths [kuldeep] Some jains are Shettys too. Jains by the way are people who were converted from Hinduism. They were bunts and or billavas before that. So a non veg Jain of DK is no big deal.But if Shetty is father's name and if the father is a bunt, then the official caste will be bunt. On the other hand if the father is a brahmin and the mother a non brahmin, it will be vice versa.I see Mr Shetty likes to be called a Barhmin. No harm. Who is concerned about that in any case?
The article has some degree of arrogance about it. It tends to imply that other schools are just plain rubbish. Again some comments I have read confirm that feeling. The conscience of this forum better known as Judith tends to throw challenges at Hindus time and again about charity, education etc. I wonder if religion is her business after all.
I agree with Verma that some people have a belief that salvation can come only if you worship and believe the son of God.I am pretty sure Muslims have similar thinking as far as Allah is concerned.So what is the real solution for this? Avoid implying superiority of one religion over the other. Respect all religions as well as non believers. |
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Sanjay Shetty, USA
: Varma - How dare you call me Sychophant? You patronizing buffoon.
I didn't declare myself to be an icon. Neither was I calling for people to be like me. I was being honest to all and spoke what I felt in my heart.
Until 'Scrooge' aka you (Varma), entered the room, who under the garb of the 'Hindu intonations' from this article seems to be adamant to pick a fight with me. God knows where you got that from?
I still don't get your reasoning behind the utter drivel you have typed to sum me up as a 'sycophant'. If anything, you seem to display the attitude of a fanatic.
Yes, to me the USA is a christian secular country just like India is a Hindu secular country. Whether it's constitution defines it or not. At least in the US. You are Christian, you become president of the nation or high government posts. You ain't one and you will not.
Obama, reconfirming his 'Christian' faith recently supports my point. As with the American Indian candidates for e.g. Bobby Jindal who have given up their faith for better endevours, but as I said, their choice. I respect that.
But this is not about faith now is it Varma? Or maybe it is to you.
I agree that it's not about the clothes but what you feel in your heart and what education you take in. 'The inside'. But isnt that what I was saying?
Dont tell me you are stupid enough to take the literal meaning of the sentences I typed. Especially with the disdasha comparison in Dubai. I found it laughable.
The 'When in Rome' analogy works anywhere btw. Even in Arab countries. If you can speak their language, wear a disdasha, the Arabs love it. I lived in Dubai and Kuwait and enjoyed my time there. You might have had a bad experience but with your attitude, Im not surprised.
I was very offended by your antics to say the least. Enjoy life and not Schadenfreude and misery man.
To end, no matter what you think of me or call me, I will continue to help and support my fellow Indian no matter where I am or who they are or where they are educated from. Even if it is a grumpy buffoon like you. |
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Guru, India
: Every where they want to know experience.
Rahul Hegde, you, your parents and grand parents have no other experience than Catholic Institutions.
How can you compare experience? |
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Athul, India
: As a non-Catholic I fully support Mr. D'Souza. - Rahul Hegde
My friend, a non-Catholic reference is made by a catholic. From you it should have been a "Bunt". But what would you know when you use a fake name.
Other possible sentences you could have goofed up on.
- As a non-Chinese I fully support Mr. D'Souza.
- As a non-Muslim I fully support Mr. D'Souza.
- As a non-Alcoholic .....
- As a non-Vegetarian ....
- As a nonagenarian ..... |
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Judith L, India
: I have not started one yet. But I can refer a few that should be able to admit you. - Vedant.
There may be few schools, I admit but considering the christian population running the institutions, it should be 50 times more and ofcourse not institutions like satkarm ashram, akshardham.
and what is refraining you and your dear politicians from starting one this show you'll can only write big sentences without any concrete activity. |
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Ajith, USA
: Until date, I never considered a school as a Christian school or a Hindu School. It was just a quality of education and the medium that was important. Most of the Schools in our area were run by the Jesuits however, I was proud to be an Aloysian as opposed to being in Milagris (friendly interschool rivalry). This was just becuase I was proud of Aloysius and all my fellow Aloysian friends. This article has further divided Aloysius into Catholic vs non-Catholic. So I am a non-Catholic now - Good or Bad is not my concern.
Regarding Aloysius - I agree all that was said and multiply it by a factor of 10. |
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vedant, India
: "Can you start some good schools and give value education and also some good charitable institutions where the orphans, handicapped and aged can be looked after. " - Judith
I have not started one yet. But I can refer a few that should be able to admit you. |
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Varma, India
: Sanjay Shetty - your rebuttal is all about you. Please ... you are no icon, nor am I a "sanjay shetty" wannabe. Your debate is going both ways without a point. I don't think you got the point in this article which was about a religion based institution and comparing it with other schools with subtle hindu intonations.
Your statement of we Hindu's think there is no superior God - this is your opinion and you should state it with a "I think" instead of "we Hindus think". Personally, I think Hinduism is all about spirituality and if you think that Hindu God is a "Human form" sitting in the clouds then you have a view of Hinduism from a different perspective - I can go on for a while on this, but as you said it is your belief and so be it.
Many of us have gone to various institutions and have enjoyed the schooling life and education. However, we have not turned out to be sycophants like you. And please your life in the US and Christianity draws no parallel, unless you are implying that USA is a Christian country. If that is the case then please re read the US constitution. Your "When in Rome.." does not work in the Arab countries - would you then wear the disdash or a suit again in these countries?. Suite/Bow/Tie does not take one out of a culture. It is just an outfit - I meant the delibrate discarding of ones culture while imbibing another - just as a convert and their descendents acceptance of a foreign faith.
So Mr. Shetty I will accept the chikku shake and your chil pill is in the mail. |
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Susan, Muscat, UAE: "Catholic Education -It's Worth Your Money"-I think it is and I fully agree with Alfie. This article only portrays the feelings of the writer about his earlier education at a Catholic institution -- so why is that so many of you are so ignorant in posting negative blogs. The article doesn't criticizes other educational institutions run by other faith, instead simply describes the quality of Catholic institutions. I went to a Catholic college, so also many of my non-catholic friends and we all cherish the moments and the love by the Catholic nuns. This article is truly sentimental and full of heartfelt feelings. Good article, Mr. D'Souza! |
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Judith L, India
: People will never appreciate especially if the good is being done by other communities. But, we have to continue our selfless work and also invite other communities to do such selfless work rather than using and wasting money on themselves, what say Varma and Vedant Can you start some good schools and give value education and also some good charitable institutions where the orphans, handicapped and aged can be looked after. |
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Sanjay Shetty, USA
: @ Varma, India –
Varma, I didn’t mean to offend by my reply, but you clearly are offended for which I apologize.
Let me make myself more clearer for patrons like Varma by tackling each paragraph of attack so to speak.
Quote ‘I have had literate people……………………………………………………..which I think is wrong’ – I, for one, haven’t forgotten my traditions and customs. But I do make it a point to go to my office in a suit and tie rather than a dhoti, lungi or kurta. This isn’t ‘convenient’ for me but rather, my way of being roman when in rome. Nothing wrong with that. It is my choice but I wouldn’t mind if my employees come to the office in shorts, lungi or whatever as long as they work hard.
As for people who forget Indian traditions conveniently in the US – Well, they are in the US (Or a western destination). A country which is a blend and a melting pot of world cultures and traditions, so to speak. My point here is, it is about how you feel, as you rightly mentioned. Nothing is stopping these kids/adults from maintaining their culture and traditions. But if they don’t feel like it, they shouldn’t be forced into it. This amounts to coercion of the state of mind. End of argument.
As for Hindus and Christians living in India who ‘forget’ their customs and traditions. Again, this is their choice. India is a democracy as far as I am concerned. So if a Hindu/Christian wants to be agnostic or atheist or even forget their traditions/customs whatever, it doesn’t matter to me. As long as they do not coerce anybody else into it, that is no problem. Apparently, this seems to be a problem to you. Your choice and I respect it but won’t tolerate if you start coercing people to think like you think. But if you engage in debate, and someone prefers to follow you, then no one is complaining buddy.
You are absolutely correct on your point – ‘It is about the education imparted’.
The article however is on catholic institutions and doesn’t attack Hindu or Muslim institutions in the country. So I don’t see a problem with the article focusing on Catholic education. Just like I don’t see a problem, when a guitar magazine decides to do a special on Fender custom made guitars.
‘I understand that Institutions ………………………..rubbish and needs to be saved.’ – Elitism exists in every society buddy. American, British and definitely the Indian society. It also exists within religions as well. For e.g Christians vs Catholics, the caste system within Hinduism, Shia Sunni stand off etc etc.
I personally think that this is wrong and give everyone black, white, brown, Hindu, Christian, Jewish, Muslim a fair chance. So if a Christian thinks that there is no way to heaven apart from Christ, we Hindus think there is no superior God /Gods than our God/Gods/Goddesses. We can transcend this to Islam and Judaism as well. It’s a personal belief. A personal conviction and I don’t intend to kill/hate other people if they think otherwise. To sum, it’s about the educational institution itself and not the belief. So let’s stick to our guns here shall we?
‘Further, a government college, ……………switch back to education -- is there a difference now????’
At no point did I belittle other institutions Government/Non Government or Indian institutions. Rather talk facts about the notion that ‘People around India would know more about Foreign institutions like Harvard, Yale, Calvins etc than Indian institutions like Manipal etc’. Not a lie, pure fact. But this is not to say that the Indian education or the educational system is rubbish. I am a product of this and I can’t make myself more clearer on how much I like and miss it.
Also, this is not to say that people wont be aware of Manipal or the Indian institutions in the future. Along with prosperity, comes recognition. So it’s a matter of time, economy and infrastructure I guess.
As for ‘Hum sab ek hai bhai’ – Don’t know what problem you have with this? Unless of course, you are a grumpy old man who prefers to be an elitist?
Take it easy Varma. Have a chikku shake from Juice Junction to cool you down! :) |
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